How to deal with dating a married man
Being more careful when having sex might have been a good idea, presuming you weren’t planning on conceiving.Fourth, because you’re emotional and reeling, you’re conflating any warm feelings for your ex-boyfriend as evidence that he was “the one that got away.” You’re forgetting a few things: 1) He’s your ex-boyfriend for a reason, 2) You have a husband, 3) Your ex was merely being human and comforting you – it doesn’t mean he’s your soulmate. And if it’s just not going to work because you simply married a selfish, insensitive, tone-deaf man, then you can and should get a divorce – but NOT to crawl back to your ex.I flew home feeling like I had married the wrong person. I felt like I couldn’t talk to anybody about anything.I became indifferent towards my husband and I began to distance myself from him. So at Christmas, I decided to leave him and it was a complete surprise to him. I moved back to Texas to live with my parents for a bit then I found out I was pregnant.It’s like I’m going through the breakup all over again and neither my husband or ex knows how I feel. That is your responsibility and your responsibility alone.Second of all, you felt so good around your ex-boyfriend that you treated your husband poorly.But the fact that he was there for me and my brother, really meant a lot to me.It meant so much to me that in fact all of my feelings for him, that had been long forgotten, came flooding back in an instant.
Shortly after I found out he had been cheating, my whole world fell apart when my sister-in-law suddenly died in a car accident.
leave the jerk, rebuild your life and find your inner happiness for yourself and your baby and when you respect yourself fully, rejoin the dating pool as a confident, hot mama!
I don’t know why we were meant to have our children with such awful ex husbands but take the DNA and run.
The ONLY thing that your ex’s behavior has cemented is the contrast between him and your current husband. Given the gravity of the situation – an 8 ½ month old child – I would do everything in your to attempt to make your relationship better. Use your single status and freedom to get into therapy yourself.
Read the book, “Kiss Your Fights Goodbye,” so you can have an honest, meaningful conversation about your relationship without attacking him. You’ve already proven to make short-sighted emotional decisions, and mistake your ex’s kindness for a declaration of love. You’re comforted by your ex because while he is a good person, your husband is a selfish guy who really couldn’t careless about your feelings.